Generated by All in One SEO Pro v4.9.10, this is an llms.txt file, used by LLMs to index the site. # Kevin Ross Emery Inspirational Catalyst ## Sitemaps - [XML Sitemap](https://kevinrossemery.com/sitemap.xml): Contains all public & indexable URLs for this website. ## Posts - [Corporate Funding is Leaving Pride. Good.](https://kevinrossemery.com/politics/corporate-funding-is-leaving-pride-good/) - A historical look at corporate Pride sponsorship, rainbow washing, and why a return to community-led Pride marches may be necessary. - [DSM + LGBTQ+ = Shenanigans](https://kevinrossemery.com/politics/dsm-lgbtq-shenanigans/) - A brief history of how the DSM classified LGBTQ+ identities, from harmful early diagnoses to the eventual removal of homosexuality as a mental illness. - [Shame versus Pride](https://kevinrossemery.com/politics/shame-versus-pride/) - An article on Pride Month as a counter to shame, fear, and despair, emphasizing public community, visibility, and emotional support. - [Sick of Failing in Life](https://kevinrossemery.com/spiritual/sick-of-failing-in-life/) - Sick of Failing in Life: 3 Tips to Start Fresh Today Introduction. When I first started thinking about this topic, I remembered the old thing about how 'live' spelled backwards is 'evil'. Well, my opinion is that what's evil is to waste a life by not living it. I've been saying for years that when - [What Is Evil?](https://kevinrossemery.com/spiritual/what-is-evil/) - Echoing Shirley Jackson’s “The Lottery,” this essay exposes modern “stonings”—laws, silence, bullying—and urges compassion, courage, and ousting oath-breakers. - [9/11, Charlie Kirk, and the Politics of Hate](https://kevinrossemery.com/politics/9-11-charlie-kirk-and-the-politics-of-hate/) - Reflecting on 9/11, an op-ed critiques Charlie Kirk and hate-based politics, ties fear and lax gun laws to violence and calls for accountability & empathy. - [Journey to Greatness Tip #9](https://kevinrossemery.com/relationship/journey-to-greatness-tip-9/) - It’s not about standing for or against something, it’s about being real. Being able to state where you stand and being open to listening to what others have to say. You need to be able to adjust when necessary, not becoming stagnate or rigid within your own ideals and beliefs. Too often as we get - [Journey To Greatness Tip #4](https://kevinrossemery.com/relationship/journey-to-greatness-tip-4/) - Don't take for granted that which comes easy. Oftentimes, people who are traveling on their path in a centered way are naturally gifted at recognizing other people's strengths, have a willingness to comment on them, and truly appreciate what others do really well—especially when it's something they might not do quite so well. It is - [ADD/HD & Seeing the Big Picture](https://kevinrossemery.com/add-adhd/add-hd-seeing-the-big-picture/) - Everyone knows ADD/HD has been named the condition of the century, and while most look at it as either a condition or a curse, it is actually a real gift. In the beginning, children and parents can be very frustrated however, with the right approach and management, you can help your child turn not only - [Airport Reflections on Patience](https://kevinrossemery.com/relationship/your-superhero-journey-patience/) - Discover how airport delays can teach valuable lessons in patience, self-reflection, and embracing life’s unexpected moments. - [Ten Ways to Change the Country](https://kevinrossemery.com/business/ten-ways-to-change-the-country/) - Ten actionable ideas for real change in America, from political reform to social accountability—start making a difference today. - [Power vs. Influence](https://kevinrossemery.com/relationship/your-superhero-journey-power-vs-influence/) - Understand the difference between power and influence, and why true empowerment comes from within, inspiring others through positive example. - [Expressions of Love](https://kevinrossemery.com/relationship/your-superhero-journey-love/) - Explore the many forms of love, from ancient Greek concepts to modern expressions, and discover how love can transform your life. - [Your Super Hero Journey: Healthy Boundaries](https://kevinrossemery.com/relationship/your-super-hero-journey-healthy-boundaries/) - Learn why honest, clear boundaries are vital for personal empowerment and relationships—plus tips for setting and expressing them effectively. - [Parenting: Not a Popularity Contest](https://kevinrossemery.com/relationship/parenting-not-a-popularity-contest/) - A bold look at modern parenting—why presence, not presents, matters most, and how ADHD labels and meds often mask deeper family needs. - [Bridging the Gap - Christianity in the New Age](https://kevinrossemery.com/spiritual/bridging-the-gap-christianity-in-the-new-age/) - A channeled perspective from Simon Peter explores how New Age thinking and core Christian teachings can harmonize beyond dogma and fear. - [The Focus Myth](https://kevinrossemery.com/add-adhd/the-focus-myth/) - Debunking the myth that ADD/HD means lack of focus—this article reveals how engagement and environment shape attentiveness in gifted minds. - [Confidence or Conceit?](https://kevinrossemery.com/spiritual/confidence-or-conceit/) - Explore the fine line between confidence and arrogance in a polarized world, and learn how true self-awareness defines authentic expression. - [Are You Turning Business Away?](https://kevinrossemery.com/business/are-you-turning-business-away/) - Knowing When to Keep You Mouth Shut Company owners large and small need to realize that unless social commentary, religion, or politics is their business, they may want to mind their business. That is, unless they want to lose it. In 2013 Barilla Group, which produces Barilla pasta, was the latest company to irritate the - [Let the Fireflies Guide You](https://kevinrossemery.com/spiritual/let-the-fireflies-guide-you/) - Oftentimes when we stand upon the precipice of change, it feels like we are standing at twilight. The day is behind us and we are headed into the unknown night, knowing that dawn is on the other side of night, yet it feels so far away. When the thought of experiencing change, or a fear - [So Why Punish the Kids?](https://kevinrossemery.com/relationship/so-why-punish-the-kids/) - After my work pivoted in the mid to late nineties, placing a stronger focus on ADD/HD, I've often spoke of how these kids were viewed as a computer virus by the mainframe computer we call public education. These bright, inquisitive, and challenging children exposed the deficiencies of the public education system. And like anything that - [Gender No More: Limiting Children Through Gender Assignment](https://kevinrossemery.com/relationship/gender-no-more-limiting-children-through-gender-assignment/) - The moment a child is born, the process of influencing the child based on their perceived gender begins. First it's the colors they should wear, then it's the toys they should play with, the activities they should engage in, and the behaviors that are and are not acceptable. Children are born on a spectrum of - [Fear Factor and Conformity](https://kevinrossemery.com/relationship/fear-factor/) - Today we use science, statistical data, patriotism, religion, popularity, wealth, health, and love as ways to control. We are manipulated by what we may or may not be, by what we have, and what we lose or never get if we do not act, think, or verbalize, exactly as we are told to. Hung over - [The ADD/HD Employee](https://kevinrossemery.com/add-adhd/the-add-hd-employee/) - As I continue the process of digital decluttering, I found an old article from the Art of Running a Small Business – You’re the Boss column in the NY Times. The article was published in 2010, but fortunately it is still available for archive viewing. It is called A.D.H.D. and the Business Owner: Is it - [The Business Soul](https://kevinrossemery.com/business/the-business-soul/) - Often we hear the idea of the soulless, faceless corporation. The question is, did corporations ever have souls - and, if so, what happened to them? There was a time when businesses functioned more like extended families. There was a sense of responsibility on both parts. Individual contributors were valued for their skills. Relationships were - [Children Will Listen](https://kevinrossemery.com/relationship/children-will-listen/) - What do you find yourself saying to your child these days? Do your actions tell them a different story? Do you tell them they are loved, yet find little time to spend with them? Is that time spent exploring who they are, or is it spent telling them why they are wrong or bad? Do - [Brainwashed](https://kevinrossemery.com/relationship/brainwashed/) - Americans have been brainwashed into believing that every child needs a high school diploma, and that everyone should go to college. I challenge this unexamined assumption. Education should not be wasted on those who do not want to be educated. More specifically, educated in the traditional public school manner. By the sixth grade, decisions should - [Taking Pride in Who You Are](https://kevinrossemery.com/relationship/taking-pride-in-who-you-are/) - We have been told that pride goes before the fall. We have also been told that pride is not just a sin, but one of the seven deadly sins. On the flip side, we are given the idea that we should take pride in our work, be proud of our country, of our loved ones, - [A Little Larger Than Life](https://kevinrossemery.com/add-adhd/a-little-larger-than-life/) - “I want you to meet my friend Kevin. He’s one of my best friends, but before you meet him, you need to know that he’s a little larger than life.” That was one of the warning labels I used to come with. Some people would even continue on, saying that I really needed to be - [Stand Up and Be Counted](https://kevinrossemery.com/spiritual/stand-up-and-be-counted/) - In many spiritual beliefs and traditions there is a great deal of emphasis on being, not doing. We're cautioned that constant action can keep us from knowing our true selves. The individual cannot connect with their higher self or make a connection to Spirit, while scurrying around, always trying to do, do, and do more, - [Can’t Fix, Not Broken](https://kevinrossemery.com/add-adhd/cant-fix-not-broken/) - When we stop seeing ADD/HD individuals as broken, we can stop trying to fix them, relying on quick fixes at that. When we can embrace working with their own natural rhythms, harmonies, and their uniqueness, then we can truly take advantage of a plethora of all natural solutions. These solutions are needed because of basic - [Love: The Secret to Manifesting Abundance](https://kevinrossemery.com/relationship/love-the-secret-to-manifesting-abundance/) - In times of great economic fluctuations and uncertainty it is our nature to contract, pull in, look for cover, and try to ride out the storm. We often wait and resist change, holding on tight to our present way of life until the storm passes. If we know that a storm will only last for a day - [Daily Spiritual Practices](https://kevinrossemery.com/spiritual/daily-spiritual-practices/) - It is the discipline of consistency, even when the heart is not present, which allows natural gifts to soar. In the absence of natural gifts, the discipline of consistency develops the tools and the mastering of the skill sets to raise your abilities to whatever capability is possible. What begins with passion can only truly - [Mutation or Evolution](https://kevinrossemery.com/add-adhd/mutation-or-evolution/) - I still remember the first time I watched the movie X-Men First Class. There is a quote from the character Charles Xavier which deeply resonated with me.“No, seriously. You mustn't knock it. Mutation took us from single cells organisms to being the dominant form of reproductive life on this planet. Infinite forms of variation with each - [A Time for Renewal](https://kevinrossemery.com/spiritual/a-time-for-renewal/) - Discover the beauty in life’s April showers. Explore reflection, grief, and renewal for growth, as sadness nurtures future blossoms. - [What Creates a Bully? How Do We Stop it?](https://kevinrossemery.com/relationship/what-creates-a-bully-how-do-we-stop-it/) - Discover the roots of bullying, how role models perpetuate it, and solutions through teaching true power, accountability, and better choices. - [Communicating With Young Children](https://kevinrossemery.com/relationship/communicating-with-young-children/) - Discover ways to connect with young children using patience, creativity, and age-appropriate communication to overcome everyday language barriers. - [Always Wanted to Be Someone](https://kevinrossemery.com/relationship/always-wanted-to-be-someone/) - Explore how artificial role models and double standards undermine children’s self-worth and why celebrating individuality is the key to their growth. - [Finding the Fun in Spirituality](https://kevinrossemery.com/relationship/finding-the-fun-in-spirituality/) - Fun and the spiritual life - how do those two concepts go together? After years spent working in corporate America, followed by dealing with the challenges of trying to run a successful full-time spiritual business at a time when most people did not think it was possible, I sometimes felt that I couldn’t afford to - [Why the Buzz?](https://kevinrossemery.com/spiritual/why-the-buzz/) - Four Loko, should we ban it? For those of you who aren’t aware, it’s the equivalent of four beers and a strong cup of coffee in a single 24 oz can. It’s raised many questions from various news outlets, many of which focused on the dangers, recommended better critical thinking skills for our kids, and - [Mixed Messages](https://kevinrossemery.com/relationship/mixed-messages/) - We send a number of mixed messages to our youth. We tell them to shoot for the stars but to remember their limitations. We guide them to be an individual, as long as they fit in with the “options” we have given them. We encourage them to take risks but nothing too risky, or not - [Journey To Greatness Tip #3](https://kevinrossemery.com/relationship/journey-to-greatness-tip-3/) - First of all, you can't know it all. You can think you know it all, and in that case you can stop reading this, because these are tips for people on their journey to greatness—not their journey to full-blown narcissism. Now, for the rest of us... You can't know it all, you can't even know - [Journey To Greatness Tip #2](https://kevinrossemery.com/relationship/journey-to-greatness-tip-2/) - As one moves forward in life with drive, passion and commitment, truly looking to make themselves the best they can be, they will leave people behind. You must accept that in this day in age you are part of a minority. You will have family, friends, and even lovers you leave behind as you push - [Journey To Greatness Tip #1](https://kevinrossemery.com/relationship/journey-to-greatness-tip-1/) - As you receive recognition for the places where your greatness shines through, don't confuse recognition with reality. In Tips to Survive Your Greatness, I refer to never believing your own press. You will never have to worry about if you learn early on not to become addicted to or defined by recognition of any kind. Now, - [The Energy Crisis is an Inside Job](https://kevinrossemery.com/spiritual/the-energy-crisis-is-an-inside-job/) - Hello everyone! I want to welcome Patrick Durkin to the Behind the Curtain blog. Patrick is one of our fantastic affiliates and I convinced him to share some of his passion, his wisdom, and his business with you. While there are many words that could be written about how the energy crisis in the world - [Ghosts - Myth and Reality](https://kevinrossemery.com/spiritual/ghosts-myth-and-reality/) - For years death has been looked upon as either the last stop or the transition to some sort of afterlife. More often than not, the latter holds true. Those of us who have worked as healers over the last thirty years, however, have found one thing to be abundantly clear: the truth is not always so well - [Evolving Perfection](https://kevinrossemery.com/relationship/evolving-perfection/) - Evolving perfection is when; by being fully present, authentic, interactive, and open to evolving, we are in the becoming process. Becoming more authentic, more of who you are and came here to be and embracing change and growth. Therefore, by being perfectly ourselves in that moment, and then willing to become our next best selves, - [Spirituality of Politics](https://kevinrossemery.com/spiritual/spirituality-of-politics/) - Oftentimes spiritual people have the idea that somehow politics are beneath them. That by the fact that they are spiritual they are “above” getting their hands dirty with things like politics. I have long been opposed to that perspective. And now it seems as if times are changing. Finally Thank God/dess Allah, Buddha, and The - [Now is the Moment](https://kevinrossemery.com/relationship/now-is-the-moment-2/) - I want to greet you today from beautiful Kittery, ME, where everything is in bloom. And now is the moment! Now is the moment, here is the challenge for you. Watch the video here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GHZdMTWST00&feature=youtu.be Now, in this moment, as soon as you are finished watching this, I want you to go out, and do some - [When Does One Become a Sheeple?](https://kevinrossemery.com/spiritual/when-does-one-become-a-sheeple/) - For those of you who don’t know how to answer this question because you don’t know what a sheeple is, let’s start with a definition. According to Wikipedia "sheeple refers to people who tend to accept and follow everything at face value", especially if it is cited in mainstream media. It was first found in - [The Danger of the New Year](https://kevinrossemery.com/relationship/the-danger-of-the-new-year/) - Yes, New Year's Resolutions can be dangerous. 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